Five Reason why a better approach to have a Happy Beautiful Life
Life could be unfair at times. Does that mean you need to be unfair too? Life has never been easy and it might never be until you change the way you look at it. Life is all about perception. Positive versus negative. Whichever you’ll choose will affect and more than likely reflect your outcomes. It is what you choose you to become. A gloomy and pessimistic person can never see the light that causes the shadow but the dark around. Remember how we were often told about the half full or half empty glass. Life is very similar to that glass of water, it’s up to us how we look at it.
Optimism will make Happy Beautiful Life and other people’s too because optimism is contagious.
Here’s how to get started.
Positive thinking- “Everyday may not be good but there is something good every day”(Happy Beautiful Life)
It’s better for our health to seek positive emotions like affection, joy, satisfaction. The links between heart and brain are well-established. A thought, gesture, look or smile is enough to calm you down and make you feel better. Share a little positivity around, you’ll also take hold a good mood.
“Don’t count on luck, success is not a fluke”
After a failure or a setback, we come to a conclusion of not being lucky. Why do you rely on luck if it lets you down? Get up and take charge of yourself – it is willpower, the spirit of conquest that keeps you moving forward. Had Luck been the factor to determine success than the casinos would be the best place to be a millionaire.When you work hard and keep on moving forward is when, the Almighty, rewards you with love and luck.
“Keep your desire to learn, No one knows it all” (Happy Beautiful Life)
Pessimists lack curiosity. They miss opportunities to discover something new. The optimist is curious about everything. Curiosity is the mother of knowledge. The desire to learn controls our ego, the thought ‘I know it all’ is the one which holds the power to either make you or destroy you. The day you feel that the statement ‘I know it all’ is true is the day you have started digging a grave for your failure. One who are modest and accept that the limit to knowledge is infinite, are the people who grow.
“Learn from experiences not only from yours but also of others”.
People never learn anything by being told, they have to find out for themselves.- Paulo Coelho
We often have good and bad experiences in life. But it’s all worth it as long as we learn from them. It doesn’t have to be just our experiences, sometimes we can step back and learn from the experiences others have. Analyze and keep improvising. Real learning is not the ones that you get in schools and books but the ones that you gain while implementing those theories into your real life.
“Learn to see the world as it is, not as, what it could have been.”
Optimism does not consist of seeing the world as more beautiful than it is. But not as uglier either. Yes, the world is uncertain but it is equally wonderful. Let’s stop seeing the glass as half empty. Life is full of promises and so is the world.When you start seeing the world as it is and accept the fact, you then realize the happiness you have been missing all this time.
Don’t believe it was better before- “It usually gets worse before getting better”(Happy Beautiful Life)
Just because you are tired and lost hope of a better life and opportunities. That simply signifies that you’ve lost your battle already. Life is a struggle and will always be. At least make your worth fighting for. No one can achieve anything without hitting a low mark in their life. Remember, success is worth cherishing when you have earned it.
“If you are not convinced, pretend to be, things will wall in place time” (“Happy Beautiful Life”)
“The only difference between the optimist and the pessimist is that the optimist is a happy fool and the pessimist a sad one.” Mind still not made up? Pretend. Express gratitude daily to someone who has been kind to you. Take a deep breath…….and smile. Store positive thoughts and dreams, and connect with it when a negative emotion takes hold. You’ll soon find this does you good and has a positive effect on those around you as well.